Rest in His love

Have you ever looked up and had your eyes open to the answer of God’s provision? God spoke to Hagar through an angel in heaven, but most often God speaks to us today through His Word as the Holy Spirit stirs us. Therefore, when we read God’s Word or hear it taught, especially in our darkest days, we should pray the prayer of Psalm 119:18~Open my eyes to see the wonderful truths in your instructions. (NLT) God didn’t create a well of water; He simply opens up Hagar’s eyes so she could see what was already there. When we are in despair, we often do not see what God is doing or has done. Often we discover that God does not create something new to deliver us. Rather, He simply opens our eyes to the resources that are already available to us. 

Hear me, this doesn’t mean that miracles don’t happen, because they do. Yet, some of the best miracles that happen in our lives are when God opens our eyes to see that this moment, that was so long in making, was already seen by God who directed our path to His divine providence. Saints, God sees it all! As we read or hear God’s Word, He often simply opens our eyes to resources we do not see. When we are in despair and tearing at the walls we need to remember God’s truth in Psalm 145:16~ You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing. (NIV)

Genesis 21:20~And God was with the boy, and he grew up. He lived in the wilderness and became an expert with the bow. (ESV) Now he has twelve sons Genesis 25:16~These were the sons of Ishmael, and these are the names of the twelve tribal rulers according to their settlements and camps. (ESV) His descendants live as nomads in the deserts of northern Arabia and become known as the Arab people. The Arab, Muhammad, founder and chief prophet of Islam, claimed descent from Ishmael. The animosity today between Israelis and Arabs can be traced back to Isaac and Ishmael. Thank you, Abe, for not trusting. Arabs believe God’s promise to Abraham was fulfilled through Ishmael and his 12 tribes, while the Jews believe it was fulfilled through Isaac and his 12 tribes. Both recognize Father Abe as the father of their race. Walls Torn Down: is about defeating despair in our lives and it requires that we Remember God can do anything, that we Refocus on obedience, that we are diligently Depending on God’s direction, and that we Rest.

Rest in God’s protection (Genesis 21:22-34). The news of Isaac’s birth apparently reaches Abimelech, whom Abe deceived in chapter 20 by telling him Sarah was his sister. Knowing God was with Abe and would bless him, Abimelech makes a covenant for a harmonious relationship between them. Genesis 21:22-24~At that time Abimelech and Phicol, the commander of his army said to Abraham, God is with you in all…therefore swear to me…by God that you will not deal falsely with me or with my descendants or with my posterity…Abraham said I will swear. (ESV) 

Is God Fair?

In Genesis 21, Abe had to be obedient, even though from his point of view God was being unfair. One reason for our despair is often wondering why God allows life to be so unfair. When that happens, we need to remember Isaiah 55:9~As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. (NIV) The Lord softens the blow by promising Abraham in Genesis 21:13~And I will make a nation of the son of the slave woman also because he is your offspring. (ESV) Knowing God would take care of them, Abe gets up early in the morning, gives bread and water to Hagar and Ishmael, and he sends them away (21:14). But, in his mind, Abe could just not connect what God was doing nor why. You and I have probably been to this lonely place where we lacked understanding and were required to walk by faith This is the spiritual truth we find in 2 Corinthians 5:7~for we walk by faith, not by sight (NIV) To defeat despair, it is necessary for the Walls to be Torn Down by Remembering God can do anything, Refocusing on obedience, and Depend.

Depend on God’s direction (Genesis 21:15-21) No doubt frightened, broken-hearted, Hagar and Ishmael depart into the desert, again. This time they did so under God’s provision. When their water runs out, Hagar has reached her limit, finding herself at wits-end she puts Ishmael under a shrub, goes a bowshot away and weeps. Genesis 21:17~And God heard the voice of the boy, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, “What troubles you, Hagar? Fear not, for God has heard the voice of the boy where he is. (ESV) Then comes one of the greatest verses in the Bible: Genesis 21:19~Then God opened her eyes (פָּקַח paqach עַיִן `ayin), and she saw a well of water. And she went and filled the skin with water and gave the boy a drink. (ESV) The phrase (פָּקַח paqach עַיִן `ayin) God opened her eyes is so awesome because when things seem darkest. God opens our eyes to see His provision. 

Refocus on Obedience

When April and I had a few years of marriage under our belt, we felt it was time to start our family. In my mid-thirties I didn’t want to be an Old Abe, rather I wanted to be done before 40. This meant children close together. So, I prayed. God answered my request instead of April’s. Having children back to back to back is not easy. When I told April I wanted to have our third she said YEAH—NO! So, I went back to the Lord and reminded him of His promise and shared how I felt He was going to have to let her know. As the Lord works, He came to her at our Tuesday prayer meeting and said that she would, and he would be a joy. You can see this in his personality. Why tell you this, perhaps you are trying, or maybe you need the reassurance that God has a plan in place. See the Lord planned Isaac’s birth just as He planned His only Son’s birth. Galatians 4:4~But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, (NIV) If we want the Walls of Despair Torn Down in our lives, then we must: Remember God can do anything, and Refocus. 

Refocus on obedience (Genesis 21:8-14). When Isaac is weaned (probably around age three), Abraham holds a celebration feast. Ishmael is now about sixteen, for you teenage parents this means there can be some pretty intense jealousy among siblings. Well, this must have been a case of hormones, with the fussy confluence of emotions mixed in a Malay would no doubt ensue. Ishmael is first born but not the child of promise and it would have been the attention given to Isaac that would tip this spear. Genesis 21:9~ But Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, laughing. (ESV) We don’t know exactly what Ishmael did, but it so angers Sarah she says to Abe Cast them out! This makes Abe very grievous Genesis 21:11~And the thing was very displeasing to Abraham on account of his son. (ESV) Men, we must listen to our wives. Our marriage is about give and take. Did you know the Hebrew word here (יָרַע Yara`) grievous means broken up or to fear and tremble? Some of you fear your wives, that is not what I’m advocating. Marriage is a partnership where two become one, brought together by God, we must work together to keep our marriages healthy that means we can’t afford to just look the other way. Understand this breaks Abe’s heart. At times like this, we need to remember God’s promise of Psalm 34:18~The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. (NIV) 

Abe doesn’t want to oust Ishmael. So, unlike last time when he just capitulated to Sarah’s suggestion to have a child with Hagar, this time he wants to be obedient to God’s will. He apparently seeks God, and God says to him in Genesis 21:12~But God said to Abraham, Be not displeased because of the boy and because of your slave woman. Whatever Sarah says to you, do as she tells you, for through Isaac shall your offspring be named. (ESV) This seems unfair because Ishmael’s birth was the result of a lapse of faith by Sarah and Abe. Why then does God tell Father Abe to send Ishmael and Hagar away? I believe it’s because in the next chapter, perhaps a decade later Abe’s faith is going to undergo a test as God challenges Him to trust (22:2). If Father Abe still had Ishmael close to home, he might think that even if Isaac is lost, he’d still have a son in Ishmael. Thus, his sacrifice of Isaac would require a lot less faith and be less meaningful. Whatever the reason, the important lesson is God doesn’t explain why.